“Be Thou An Example”
I Timothy
Good Examples Are to Be Imitated
Paul’s admonition to the young preacher Timothy was to be
an example of the believers. We all know
and understand the value of an example.
Parents know without doubt that the most enduring lessons they will
teach their children are those that they teach by their example. Every one of us is an example for someone. Our lives are examples, patterns or
blueprints for someone; even if we are not aware of those who might be
following or imitating us. In order to
live as we should we must follow and be only good examples. The Apostle Paul was extremely conscious of
his role as an example to all those who heard him.
II Thessalonians 3:7-9 “For
yourselves know how ye ought to follow us: for we behaved not ourselves
disorderly among you; Neither did we eat any man's bread for nought; but
wrought with labour and travail night and day, that we might not be chargeable
to any of you: Not because we have not power, but to make ourselves an ensample
unto you to follow us.”
Paul not only lived his life
as an example for all of those who knew him, he asked them to imitate him:
Philippians
But Paul qualified his
instruction with this caveat:
“Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ.” I Corinthians 11:1
Paul instructed the
Corinthian church to be a follower or imitator of him only to the extent that
he followed the example of Jesus Christ.
We are also given this same instruction through the pen of the apostle
John:
I John 2:6
“He that saith he abideth in him ought
himself also so to walk, even as he walked.”
While it is necessary for every
one of us to be aware that we are examples, this is especially important for
those who are teachers, preachers, elders or leaders in the congregation of the
Lord’s church and this includes their wives as well.
The Apostle Peter, who was
an elder himself, emphasizes that elders are to be examples. They are to serve, not as lord’s over God’s
people but examples.
“Neither as being lords over God's heritage, but being examples to
the flock.” I Peter 5:3
Bad Examples Are to Be Avoided
The prophets of
Isaiah
Jeremiah
We today have more bad
examples that we could ever number. The
Apostle James admonishes:
“Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of
the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world
is the enemy of God.” James 4:4
But
many people want to be friends with the world.
Unfortunately many of us invite the world into our homes on a daily
basis and relish its entertainment.
Television and the movies in my lifetime, even most of those available
on DVD, that are available to rent, have become a garbage pit for the
mind. What has been called the idiot box
in my generation has become a garbage box.
If it were not for weather, news, a few sports programs and a very
limited list of other things there would be no need for one in my home. Even that is deteriorating; during this past
week the national news became so disgusting that I turned it off.
I John 2:15-17 “Love not the
world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is
not in him. For all that is in the
world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life,
is not of the Father, but is of the world.
And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the
will of God abideth for ever.”
Our neighbors, our teachers, our associates, our parents,
our children and grandchildren all influence us. We need to be aware and wary of all things
worldly and recognize the danger signals that will tell us when we are being
led astray. We are to:
“Watch ye, stand fast in the faith, quit you like men, be strong.”
I Corinthians 16:13
“See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise.” Ephesians 5:15
We must be careful what
examples we follow but above all we must be fully aware and in control of the
kind of example that we present to those around us.
An Example in Word
First of all; as Paul admonished the young preacher, that
he must be an example in word. As James
tells us in:
James 3:8
“But the tongue can no man tame; it is
an unruly evil, full of deadly poison”
And, oh, what a chore it is
to control our tongues. Our tongues can
create more havoc in 5 minutes than we can repair in half a lifetime. If I asked for a show of hands of those who
have to deal with this problem, I would expect to see everyone present to
respond, myself included. The Apostle
Paul writes to the Ephesian church:
Ephesians 4:29 “Let no corrupt communication
proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that
it may minister grace unto the hearers.”
We normally think of corrupt
communication as that which is considered vulgar, cursing or of that nature but
this is a misconception. The writer continues
with a contrast corrupt speech with that which should edify, strengthen or
build up, giving us a definition of corrupt as anything that does not edify,
strengthen or build up.
Colossians 4:6 “Let your
speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought
to answer every man.”
We are to “KNOW HOW YE OUGHT TO ANSWER EVERY MAN” and
with the age and experience of most of us we should, but do we? Our speech should be that which attracts,
that which comforts, that which answers patiently that which is best and
pertinent to the occasion. We have to
work at it. The source of our words is
our heart. If our heart is not right
then our words won’t be right either.
This is the contrast that Jesus is pointing out in:
Matthew
In verse 33 Jesus tells them
that just as the good tree will bear good fruit, a corrupt tree will bear
corrupt fruit, the fruit of the heart will be likewise:
“A good man out of the good treasure of the heart bringeth forth good
things: and an evil man out of the evil treasure bringeth
An Example in Our Manner of Life
We are to be an example in our “CONVERSATION” in the 17th
century English of our King James Bible this is our manner of life; the way we
live. Those who are looking to you as an
example will follow your actions, your ways, your activities, far more often
than they will follow your words. Or, as
most of us were taught when we were growing up, “actions speak louder than
words.” We begin again with our hearts.
Proverbs
Proverbs 23:7 “For as he thinketh in his
heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not
with thee.”
Our lives, our actions, our
thoughts and our manner of living are shaped and controlled by what we have in
our hearts.
Matthew
Evil deeds are begotten by
evil thoughts; what we do springs from our intermost thoughts, wants and
desires. Those things that are wrong in our lives spring from either a heart
that is corrupted by this world, or one that has been overcome by the
temptations of Satan. Jesus in the
sermon on the mount taught us:
“Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for
they shall be filled.” Matthew 5:6
Just as Peter admonished the
elders in I Peter 5:3 we teach our
children, grandchildren, neighbors, and anyone who sees us or associates with
us by the example we live far more than the example we teach. One must be in harmony with the other or we
are living in hypocrisy. We’re told in
the sacred scripture:
“But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable,
gentle, and easy to be
intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without
hypocrisy.” James 3:17
An Example in Our Love
We must be an example in our love. Much is taught and much has been made
concerning God’s love for mankind. But that
love must be returned by our love for Him and the love our fellow man and his
welfare. The welfare of our fellow man
must be second in our hearts only to our love of God. When asked the question concerning the
greatest of commandments Jesus answered this way:
Matthew 23:35-42 “Then one of
them, which was a lawyer, asked him a question, tempting him, and saying,
Master, which is the great commandment in the law? Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord
thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt
love thy neighbour as thyself. On these
two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”
Are
we an example to others in our love of God?
Does our life reflect a deep abiding, committed love for God? Or do we stand one Sunday and sing the words
to the song “Oh How I Love Jesus” and then let the slightest hindrance or
interference keep us from Bible study or worship the next opportunity that we
have to edify ourselves or pay homage and honor to God? What kind of example are we?
Do
we come to worship God, study God’s word and then leave everything we learned,
everything that we should do as God’s children behind the door when we leave
the church building?
I John 5:3
“For this is the love of God, that we
keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.”
What
is our example teaching others about our love for God, his precepts and his
commandments?
What is our example teaching others about our love for
each other? Jesus taught us in:
John
By this, by what, Jesus:
John
It is by this, by our love
for one another; that men will know that we are His disciples. We are to love one another just as Jesus
loved us. What was the extent and depth
of that love?
John
We
are extremely blessed that we do not live in a day where Christians are
persecuted, beaten, imprisoned, even killed simply because of their faith in
God and their obedience to his commandments.
Has that so watered down our concept of love that we no longer can
comprehend the meaning of the words of Jesus?
The influence of the world gives us a “me first” attitude. It is said that the “me” generation was the
one in which I grew up with and the next one has outstripped us in saturating
their lives with this attitude.
We
have been so blessed in our lifetime that our entire world seems to have become
addicted to their own wants, wishes and pleasures. Other people take second place and God a poor
third. What is our example showing? Does it show our love for God and his
commandments, or our love for ourselves and the pleasures of this world? Does our example reflect our love for others
or our love for self?
An Example in Our Faith
What is our example to others in our faith in God? Our faith is generated by our learning the
will, mind and love of God. Our
righteousness comes through our faith:
Romans
This
is the reason behind Paul’s writing to the Roman brethren a few verses later:
“So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.” Romans 10:17
We
are to hear the word of God, learn his purpose for putting us here on this
earth, realizing that he put us here for his purposes not ours (Ecclesiastes 12:13). At the same time he gave us the free will to
serve him or to refuse to serve him. But
he has made special promises to those who honor him. The Psalmist records for our learning:
Psalms 9:9-10 “The LORD also will be a refuge for the
oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble.
And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: for thou, LORD, hast not forsaken them that seek
thee.”
Psalms 32:10
“Many sorrows shall be to the wicked:
but he that trusteth in the LORD, mercy shall compass him about.”
Another
not only tells us that we are blessed if we trust or have faith in God, but
also tells us that if we don’t we will turn away to lies.
Psalms 40:4
“Blessed is that man that maketh the LORD his trust, and respecteth not the
proud, nor such as turn aside to lies.
This is emphasized further:
Psalms 84:5, 12 “Blessed is the man whose
strength is in thee; in whose heart are the ways of them.” v.12 “O
LORD of hosts, blessed is the man that trusteth in thee.”
We are protected, bolstered against the wiles of Satan,
by our shield of our faith. The apostle
tells us to above all, beyond everything else that we should carry that shield
of faith.
Ephesians
Our example to others should
be as a pillar of working faith that will carry us thorough our entire lives as
faithful, working, obedient children of God.
Our eternal destiny will be determined by the strength of our example of
faith:
I Thessalonians 5:1-3 “But of the
times and the seasons, brethren, ye have no need that I write unto you.
For yourselves know perfectly that the day of the Lord so cometh as a
thief in the night. For when they shall
say, Peace and safety; then sudden destruction cometh upon them, as travail
upon a woman with child; and they shall not escape.”
But
the Apostle John gives us this assurance:
“Fear none of those things which thou shalt suffer: behold, the devil
shall cast some of you into prison, that ye may be tried; and ye shall have
tribulation ten days: be thou faithful unto death, and I will give thee a crown
of life.” Revelation 2:10
Be An Example in Our Purity
We must be an example in our purity. That becomes harder and harder in today’s
society, especially for those who are influenced by their peers, or others that
they associate with in this world. Moral
goodness is a rarity among many people today.
All we have to do is to look around us, listen to the news reports, read
our newspapers to know that the morals of this country seems to sink to a new
low almost day by day. Modesty is mocked
by today’s world. It seems that most of the
popular clothing is so tight that we wonder how the seams hold together; much
of the rest is designed to display and enhance whatever physical attributes
that the people who wear it have. Though
these styles of dress are mostly targeted toward young women, any of us can be
guilty. Our current society is described
by the wisdom of God through the seer, Agur:
Proverbs 30:12 “There is a generation that are
pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness.”
Among such our example must
be one of purity.
Matthew 5:8
“Blessed are the pure in heart: for they
shall see God.”
Conversely those not pure in
heart will not see God. The Psalmist
describes those who will see God in this fashion:
Psalms 24:3-5 “Who shall
ascend into the hill of the LORD? or
who shall stand in his
Those who practice pure religion,
righteous living will have no part or parcel of this world:
James
The completeness of our
example is to follow the words of the apostle, put into our hearts and keep in
our hearts the things that make for righteousness, the thoughts that are pure
and wholesome in a depraved world:
“Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are
honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever
things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any
virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Philippians 4:8
Put these things in our
hearts and minds and do not let the thoughts and cares of this world crowd them
out.
Look in your mirror and ask
“What kind of example am I?” Am I a good
example in word, in my manner of life, the way that I live, in my love for God
and my fellow man, in my faith in God, in purity from this evil world? If not then there are some changes that we
need to make in our lives.
Invitation